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IF I NO GET MONEY FOR THIS LIFE, WETI I GAIN?

Today on A STITCHE IN TIME SAVES NINE, we will be looking at the above statement translated into NIGERIA PIDGIN ENGLISH. The above sentence is now common especially among teenagers, and is one of the PRIMARY REASON for increase In social vices like Human Trafficking, Internet fraud, Human Rituals and a whole lots of others. It's becomes more surprising when You hear children under the age of 10 saying it proudly as they work down the street. It's not wrong to be Wealthy, but the problem behind this sentence is the idea that People should do

ANYTHING TO GET MONEY WHETHER GOOD OR BAD.With that In mind People are now engaging In all manner of things to get money.

There is time for EVERY AFFAIRS UNDER THE SUN so says that Bible. In life, there is a TIME TO GET SEEDS FOR PLANTING ie decide on what to do with your life, either going to school, learning a trade or skills etc, a TIME TO PLANT ie following the part You have decide for your self like go to school, learn the skill or trade etc, a TIME TO NURTURE ie to grow and improve In the chosen part until we become proficient In the chosen field, a TIME TO REAP ie to begin to get rewards for been proficient In the chosen field, a TIME TO ENJOY ie begin to get satisfaction From the rewards of our hard work like going for vacations, buying expensive wears, houses, cars and others.

Because of the mentality already cited as the cause of the increase In social vices, People especially the youth that has not define a part for themselves, take steps In that Direction, grow In the chosen part, All of all sudden want to start reaping and enjoying fruits From no where. Here are some examples of what they do to make quick cash,

1. INTERNET FRAUD: People now go into fraud of all kinds including Internet fraud and online dating scam to make quick cash. It's interesting to know that ladies are also involved In this fraud of different kinds.

2. G- PLUS: This is an advance form of fraud when fraudster include the use of voodoo, charms and human rituals into the practice so as to be able to effectively scam their victims of huge sum of money. Some outrighly engage In human rituals and blood money and disguise their actions with Internet fraud or G as it's popularly called.

3. PROSTITUTION: This is when People engage In sexual activities for gains either monetary or In kind. For the seek of this term, i will be defining other terms that are used commonly to refer to prostitution.

- ARISTOCRAT: M.I Abaga define Aristocrat as some one Male or Female that engage In sexual activities with some one much older than them for ARISTO - CASH.

- ARISTO - CASH : This is the gains or cash gotten From the activities with ARISTO - CLIENTS.

- ARISTO - CLIENTS: These are the usually older and Wealthy persons that engage In ARISTO - CRASY with an ARISTOCRAT.(Mr. Evidence)

- ARISTO - CRASY : This refer to the unwholesome relationship that exist between an ARISTOCRAT AND ARISTO - CLIENT usually for their mutual benefits.(Mr. Evidence). It also comes with ARISTO - CURSE.

- ARISTO - CURSE : This is the evil consequences of the relationship between an ARISTOCRAT and ARISTO - CLIENT. (Mr Evidence). Some are brought about by the innocent spouse of the ARISTO - CLIENTS like insults, beatings, embarrassment, etc and also the fact that some of the ARISTO - CLIENTS uses the ARISTOCRAT to renew the EVIL CONVENANT they have and for other evil purposes.

In a nut shell, the quest to get money at all cost has lead many into All manner of crime against Humanity. It is Good to State at this point that there are more to life than acquiring Wealth From evil ways. Who of us can remember the richest man on earth In 1900,1950,1980,2000, and the likes? It shows that acquiring Wealth at all cost is not the ultimate, but LIVING A GOOD LIFE IN THE SITE TO GOD AND MAN IS BEST , because even if we dont enjoy All that life have to offer now, we will surely enjoy these and many more In God's Kingdom.

A STITCHE IN TIME SAVES NINE.

QUALITIES OF A CAPABLE WIFE

 A lot have been said by different scholars and authors about the above topic because while the man is the HEAD of the family, the wife is said to be the NECK. We all know the role our NECK play with regards to the functioning of our head and the body as a whole. Though the head is the site of wisdom and decision making, without the neck the decisions cannot get to the other parts of the body for execution. Not to forget is the fact that the neck actually help in rotating and adjusting the position of the head. That been the case, the role of a wife in the family is as important as that of the NECK to the body.  This in turn calls for great responsibility on the part of the Woman if she will be able to perform her duties as a CAPABLE WIFE well in the family. It is understood that majority of the ladies we have around lack these qualities, and this might be one of the reasons why we have a large number of unmarried ladies of marriageable age in the society and the world at large. But how can we cultivate the qualities of a capable wife if we don’t already have them all?  How can we recognize them when we come across one? These questions will be answered during the course of this article, but before that, let’s look at the definitions of some terms. Our discussion will be based on PROVERBS 31: 10-31. We will be considering it in PIECE MEAL.

 1. CAPABLE: Long man Lexicon of Contemporary English defines it as having the qualities or abilities to do something well.

 2. CAPABLE WIFE: is defined as a married woman that performs her wifely duties or roles very well to the best of her ability.

 The first section will be taken from PROVERBS 31: 10- 12, it says, “A capable wife who can find, her value is far more than that of corals. In her the heart of her owner has put trust, and there is no gain lacking. She has rewarded him with good not bad, all the days of her life. VERSE 10: make it clear that getting a CAPABLE WIFE is very DIFFICULT especially now that we live in a world with low moral values, a world that glorifies those with bad and questionable characters, a world were majority of the girls place more value on their physical appearance than their characters, which is the secret person of the heart that has more value in the sight of God. It is good to always look good, because we should dress the way we want to be addressed, and looking good, is good business. However, this should not be done at the expense of our good conducts. So a man that is fortunate to find a capable wife should be very happy, because she is worth more than millions of precious stones. VERSE 11: makes it clear that the husband of a capable wife puts his trust in her in that he has the confidence that whatever tasks she is given either in his presence or absence, she is going to deliver well. He also trust her in that whatever they discuss in secret, she will never disclose to a third party, in good or bad times. This is one area that most women are guilty of. Once they are privileged to know some of your secrets, most will be looking for the next little misunderstanding to tell the tales to the world. That is very wrong. We should learn to keep secrets no matter the condition both good and bad.  It also says that there is no gain lacking. This means that the household does lack anything good, but lack bad things that will affect the household adversely. VERSE 12: makes it clear that she reward her husband with good even when he does not deserve it all the day of her life. She does this through her words, actions, and decisions. She does not pay back evil for evil. Though this lesson is directed mainly to the Ladies, men can also learn from it.

 PROVERBS 33: 13-15, it says and i quote "she has sought wool and linen, and she works at whatever is the delight of her hands. She has proved to be like the ships of a merchant, from far away she brings in her food. She also wakes up while it is still night and gives food to her household, and the prescribed portion to her young women. end of quote. (New Word Translation). VERSE 13: says she sew wool and linen. This does not mean that she is an experience fashion designer, rather it means that she knows how to do minor amendments on clothes using needle and thread or a sewing machine if she has one, thus saving the resources of her husband and uses them for other necessary things. She works at whatever is the delight of her hand means she discovers her gifts, talents, or abilities. it can be cooking, trading, making hair or clothes etc, works on it to become more proficient and use it to assist her family, others, and raise funds for the family i.e. she learns a skill. VERSE 14: says she has prove to be like the ships of a merchant, from far away she brings in her food, meaning that she is not satisfied with merely going to the market to buy food stuff for the family, but she goes to the parts of the market that she knows she will get the items at a cheaper price even if it means walking long distances, and that she also knows the right time to go to the market to get the items at a cheaper price. She also knows the various markets in the community where she can get the various food items cheap, and also goes to get them for her family thus saving funds. VERSE 15: says she also get up while others are still asleep to start attending to house duties like cooking, cleaning, washing, etc and ensure that they have something to eat no matter how small when they wake up from sleep. It also says she gives the prescribe portion to her young women means that though she is very hard working, she does not encourage laziness and incapability by her young women, so she starts teaching them how to carry out various duties so that they will grow up to become responsible, capable and independent adults.

 PROVERBS 31: 16- 18, reads, she has considered a field and proceeded to obtain it, from the fruitage of her hands and she planted a vineyard. She has girded her hips with strength, and she invigorates her arms. She has sensed that her trading is good, her lamp does not go out at night. VERSE 16; says she buys a field from the fruitage of her hands and planted a vineyard. It means that she was able to raise large sum of money from her business that could make her get properties for the family. This she does with the permission of her husband recognizing he is her head. Whatever she does, is not to bring praise to herself, but to bring praise to her husband, family, and God. She also planted a vineyard means that apart from her business, she also has a garden were she plants vegetables, and other things she uses in cooking for the family. She knows that because we are living in an uncertain world, there are going to be times when there will not be money to feed the family, but with the harvest from her garden, they will survive until things normalize. She also uses the things from her garden to cook for the family, so that she will have to buy little of nothing thus saving the family funds. VERSE 17: shows that she is very  hard working, because she keep on working even when she is suppose to be resting knowing she has to care for her family very well. VERSE 18, shows that she is good in whatever business or trade she does, thus raising more funds for herself and the family. Her lamp does not go out at night means that she plans ahead. She knows what the family have and does not have. She does not wait for any of the house hold items to be completely finished, before she makes plans to replace then, rather she replaces them as soon as she notice that they will soon finish. Ladies! What kind of wife do you want to be in future? A full house wife? Meaning you are not going to engage in any other business apart from making babies and taking care of your household, thus depending solely on your husband for funds. How will you cope when he loses his job, or the inevitable happens? Food for thought! Or do you want to become a full career woman? By this I mean that you concentrate majorly on making money, and have little or no time for caring for your family. A capable wife should balance both activities as they are both important for the smooth running of the family.

PROVERBS 31; 19-21 says and i quote “Her hands seize the distaff, and her hands take holds of the spindle. She extends her hands to the lowly one, and she opens her hands to the poor. She does not worry about her household because of the snow, for her whole household is clothed in warm garments.  The point we are picking from here is that ‘She extends her hands to the lowly one, and she opens her hands to the poor. Ladies are you the type that is very stingy even with the needs you don’t need? Are you the type that when your husband wants to give money or things to assist his family members or those in need that will be the time you will present your endless need of the things you want? Are you the type that does not make your inlaws comfortable in your husbands house, But if it’s your family members, you will treat them with all care and ensure that they get the best of everything? Such attitude is very wrong and has broke many marriages today. Be careful not to fall into this trap and treat everyone equally.

PROVERBS 31: 22-24, says, coverlets, she has made for herself. Her clothing is of linen and wool dyed reddish purple. Her owner is someone known in the gates, when he sits down with the older men of the land. She has made even undergarments and proceeded to sell them, and belts she has given to the tradesmen. VERSE 22: makes mention of a capable wife making coverlets (bedspreads) for herself. It shows that apart from being good in domestic activities, she is also good in bed that is why she provides whatever will make sleeping with her husband enjoyable. It also shows that a capable wife has a high fashion sense, that is why her clothing is of linen and wool dyed reddish purple. She knows how to combine wears and colors of things to put on to any occasion that will suit the purpose of the occasion, with modesty and soundness of mind. VERSE 23: makes it clear that she brings, praise, glory, and honor to her husband through her conducts, words, decisions, and actions that is why her owner is someone known at the gates, when he sits down with the older men of the land. VERSE 24: makes it clear that she provides for the needs of her husband and children to the extent of undergarments, that is why she makes undergarments, after satisfying her family needs, she sells the surplus to the tradesmen. It also shows that she is very sociable that is why she can sell her various produces to the public and raise funds for herself and family. Ladies please always try to satisfy your husband marital dues, so he will not have reasons to look elsewhere for it!

PROVERBS 31: 25-27. Says, strength and splendor are her clothing, and she laughs at a future day. Her mouth she has opened in wisdom and the law of loving kindness is upon her tongue. She is watching over the going on of her house hold, and the bread of laziness she does not eat.  VERSE 25 shows that she is very hard working because she clothe herself with strength and splendor, meaning she does not easily get tired. she laughs at a future day shows that she has vision, foresight, and discernment to sense a noble course and pursue it, even if it means sacrificing  her time, resources, strength, convenience, etc because she knows the rich rewards that awaits them in the future, thus "smiling".  She believes in suffering today so that they can enjoy tomorrow. she prefer to stick to a hard working man with prospect for the future even if he is poor today, than a wealthy man that she don’t see a future with. This is where most ladies are getting it wrong today. Most 21^st century ladies prefer to enjoy everything today forgetting that there are many days ahead.  VERSE 26, shows that she is very cautious of what she says, because it can affect her personality either for good or bad. She does not take part in idle talks, harmful gossips, back biting, etc. rather she gives wise, reliable, & sound counsels to her husband, children, friends, and acquaintances. VERSE 27, says she is watching over the going on of her house hold in that she knows details about almost everything going on in the life’s of her husband, and children because she is a very good communicator. She knows their needs, abilities, likes etc individually. She knows when they are sad individually and what to say or do to make them happy. This is also where many ladies are getting it wrong, it becomes worst when they are wealthy and have house maids. There are certain duties that can never and should never be delegated by the woman to a third party not even a relative. They include washing his under wears, making his bed, fetching his bathing water, making and serving his food and many more. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, so says a wise proverb. By allowing their maids to prepare and serve their husbands food. Some women has given the key to their man’s heart to the maid, no wonder some end up marrying their maid’s and chasing out the madam. Women should guide against this with all their might. The bread of laziness, she does not eat means she is not lazy, but rather very industrious. Ladies, are you a good communicator? How do you relate with your parents, siblings, and others? Are you friendly or harsh? Always remember, thoughts in the heart of a man, are like waters in a deep well, only the one with discernment (a good communicator) can draw them out.

 PROVERBS 31:28-30. Reads thus, her sons have risen up and proceeded to pronounce her happy, her owner rises up and he praises her. There are many daughters that have shown capableness, but you- you have ascended above them all. Charm may be false, and prettiness may be vain, but the woman that fears Jehovah is the one that has procure praise for herself. The three verses talks about the rewards of a capable wife. Let us now look at them critically. VERSE 28, shows that all the beautiful qualities of a capable wife are noticed by the world, including her husband and children, that is why her sons will rise and pronounce her happy and her husband will praise her. This will also earn her their love, respect, support, generosity, consideration, understanding, patient, and many more good things. VERSE 29, is the romantic words of her husband to her, acknowledging the fact that there are other girls with the qualities of a capable wife, but she has proved herself uniquely evident in performing her wifely duties. For this she is going to have his love, trust, and fidelity, for the rest of her life until death do them part! VERSE 30: talks about the most important quality of a capable wife. This quality summaries all the other ones. It says that the woman that fears Jehovah is the one that procure praise for herself. A woman that fears God will not exhibit bad manners. it means that you can be very charming, pretty, have all the other qualities, but once this is lacking, every other thing is a waste. This is so because you will not get God’s blessings now, and in the future everlasting life. i know all have benefited a lot from the article, let’s put them into practice to help attract the right man to us and make our homes paradise on earth. ( LIVING EVIDENCE FOUNDATION)

IS THIS PERSON RIGHT FOR ME?  

This is a question that people of all ages have asked and is still asking around the world because of the prevalence of divorce, marital issues, domestic violence and the likes, hence the need to find a mate that will give us PEACE OF MIND. Answering the following questions candidly, will help us make wise decisions on this issue.

 FOR THE LADIES, The most important question will be ‘WILL HE MAKE A GOOD HUSBAND FOR ME?

 THESES QUESTIONS BASE ON CHARACTER SHOULD BE ANSWERED WITH ARE SINCERITY.

 1. How does he handle any authority he have?

2. What are his goals?

 3. Is he now working toward these goals?

4. How does he treat his family?

 5. Who are his friends?

 6. What does he talk about?

7. What is his attitude toward money?

 8. What type of entertainment does he enjoy?

 9. How does he demonstrate his love for God, or is he God Fearing?

 QUESTIONS BASE ON HIS ASSETS.

 1. Is he industrious or Hand working?

 2. Is he financially responsible?

3. Does he have good reputation in the society?

 4. Is he considerate of others?

 DANGER SIGNS.

1. Is he quick to anger?

2. Does he try to involve you in sexual misconduct?

 3. Is he physically or verbally abusive?

 4. Does he need to use alcohol to have a good time?

 5. Is he jealous and self centered?

 QUESTIONS  MEN SHOULD ASK ABOUT THE LADIES CHARACTER.

 1. Does she show submissiveness within and outside the family?

 2. How does she treat her family?

 3. Who are her friends?

4. What does she talk about?

 5. What is her attitude toward money?

 6. What are her goals?

 7. Is she working toward these goals?

 8. What type of entertainment does she enjoy?

 9. How does she demonstrate her love for God or is she God Fearing?

 QUESTIONS BASED ON HER ASSETS.

 1. Is she industrious and hard working?

 2. Is she financially responsible?

3. Does she have good reputation in the society?

4. Is she considerate of others?

DANGER SIGNS.

 1. Is she contentious?

 2. Does she try to involve you in sexual misconducts?

3. Is she verbally or physically abusive?

 4 .Does she need to use alcohol to have a good time?

 5. Is she jealous and self centered?

Sadly most girls today GOSSIP ALOT and want to, or even control their husband's. It becomes worst when they are financially independent or becomes the bread winner of the family, not because the man is lazy, but because of some circumstances beyond his control. This attitude is devilish, and VERY WRONG IN THE SIGHT OF GOD AND MAN.  This write up focus on the major points among the many factors to consider.

We should try to shun all bad attitudes as they will REPEL, our IDEAL MATE and exude those that will ATTRACT them to us. Life is too short to spend regretting with the wrong mate because of our poor decisions. (LIVING EVIDENCE FOUNDATION)

                                           HOW TO QUIT SMOKING.

The following PRINCIPLES if applied can help us QUIT SMOKING.

 1. CONVINCE YOURSELF: Write down your reasons for quitting, and review this list regularly. A desire to be clean can be a Powerful motive.- Romans 12:1.

 2. GET HELP: If you have been smoking in secret, now is the time to come clean. Tell those you have been hiding it from that you are quitting, and ask for their support. If you want to serve God, pray for his help. - 1 john 5:14.

 3. SET A QUIT DATE: Give yourself two weeks or less, and mark on your calendar the day you are determined to quit. Tell your family and friends that you are quitting on that date.

 4. SEARCH AND DESTROY: Before you reach your quit date, scour your room, car, and clothing for any cigarettes. Destroy them. Get rid of lighters, matches, razlers and ashtrays.

5. DEAL WITH WITHDRAWAL SYMPTONS: Drink plenty of fruit juice or water, and allow more time to sleep. Keep in mind that the discomfort is TEMPORARY, while the benefits are PERMANENT.

 6. AVOID TRIGGERS: Stay away from places and situations where you will be tempted to smoke. You may also need to cut out contact with associates who are smokers. - Proverbs 13:20.

 7. AVOID RATIONALIZATION: Don't FOOL YOURSELF by saying “I WILL ONLY TAKE ONE PUFF"-). Such rationalization often leads to FULL RELAPSE. - Jeremiah 17:9.

 DID YOU KNOW? Smokeless tobacco- such as chewing tobacco can deliver more NICOTINE than cigarettes and contains more than 25 cancer causing compounds that increase the user's risk of developing CANCER OF THE THROAT, AND MOUTH. (AWAKE) The above PRINCIPLES can be applied when quitting "MARIJUANA, WE-WE, IGBO, SK, OR SCUM". Kindly Share this post to save someone battling with this problem.

HOW WILL I GIVE MY CHILD A GOOD START IN LIFE?

The birth of a child, brings both joy and anxieties, like how to give the child a good start in life. Follow through on some suggestions. Television can be a wonderful learning tool, says a report in the NEW YORK TIMES. However, sitting passively in front of the tube for hours is taking its toll on the bodies and minds of children’s, robbing them of opportunities that can foster creative, learning, and social interaction.

After studying the viewing habits of 2,500 children, researchers at children hospital in Seattle Washington, U.S.A., Found that the more TV viewed by toddlers aged 1-3, the greater the risk of attention problem at age 7, says the news paper. Such children are increasingly aggressive and impatient and had a decreased attention span. According to educational psychologist Dr. Jane M. Healy, many parents of children diagnosed with attention deficit disorder found the difficulty markedly improved after they took away TV viewing privileges. What can parents do to reduce the time spent by their children watching TV? The report offered the following suggestions:

- Set limits on when and how long your child can watch TV each day.

-Avoid using the TV as a babysitter. Instead, involve your child in doing household chores as much as possible.

- Select the shows your child can watch, and turn off the TV when the shows are over.

- Whenever possible, watch the selected programs with your child and talk about what you see.

 Finally, limit your own TV viewing.

 Nurturing creativity and social skills in children takes time, determination, and self discipline. The positive results are worth the effort. This is attested to in an ancient proverb that says: Train up a boy according to the way for him, even when he grow old, he will not depart from it.(proverbs 22:6). An integral part of such training involves instructing children in proper MORAL VALUES. (Awake). 

WHAT IS PATIENCE?

 PATIENCE:- One class of thinking define patience as the ACT or ABILITY to ENDURE or TARRY FOR AWHILE, while WAITING FOR an ACT, EVENT, or SOMETHING ELSE to MATERIALIZE or OCCUR! Sad though, many people today lack this quality because they tend to want things done as soon as possible to meet their needs, thereby BREAKING PROTOCOLS, JUMPING STEPS, and creating SHORT CUTS to achieve their "AIMS" or get to their "DESTINATIONS". Often times, this lead to sad and bitter aftermaths. Let us learn from NATURE how we can be patient.

1. APPLE: Any man wanting to have a constant source of apple in his house might plan to plant an apple seed from which will come the APPLE TREE. For it to grow into a tree, the seed have to die first in the soil after which it will germinate and take some months or years to get to maturity before it can produce APPLE FRUITS. This calls for what? PATIENCE. What happens if the owner becomes impatient and cut down the tree because it has not started producing fruits though it has germinated forgetting that FOR EVERYTHING THERE IS AN APPOINTED TIME? YOU ALREADY KNOW!

2. CHILD BEARING: A married woman desirous of having CHILDREN should be ready to wait for about 9 MONTHS before she can have her baby. Lets assume she has been married for 20 years without  a child. What will happen if after becoming pregnant because of the joy of wanting to have her baby as soon as possible she decides not to wait for 9 MONTHS, let’s say about 5months before going into forced labor or arranged that she should be operated upon? YOU ALREADY KNOW!

3. BUSINESS: An industrious young man desiring to become an INTERNATIONAL BUSINESS MAN needed to learn a SKILL that will take about 3.5 YEARS to become PROFICIENT in it. He actually started the skill acquisition program. What will happen if after about a 2 YEARS of learning the skill, decides to BREAK AWAY TO ESTABLISH HIS OWN? YOU ALREADY KNOW!

MORAL: The importance of been PATIENT can never be overly STRESSED. PARTIAL PATIENCE IS NO PATIENCE, BECAUSE IT CAN LEAD TO LOSING EVERY THING. PATIENCE HAS TO BE EXERCISE FULLY TO YIELD THE REQUIRED RESULTS. DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS, WHEN YOU CAN HAVE THE BEST! YOU DESERVE THE BEST. ( LIVING EVIDENCE FOUNDATION)

       

    QUALITIES OF A CAPABLE HUSBAND

When it comes to marital issues, people usually turn to the woman and present the long list of qualities a capable wife should possess as found in the Bible without paying equal attention to that of the man too, because it takes two to tangle.  We shall be looking at the qualities a Capable Man should possess in piece meal. The first quality we will be considering is

1. INDUSTROUSNESS: A Capable husband should be very industrious. He tries to be CREATIVE,AND ENGAGE IN AS MANY TASKS AS POSSIBLE SO THAT HE WILL BE ABLE TO MEET THE NEEDS OF HIS FAMILY AT ALL TIMES. He is willing to pick up MINOR JOBS just to be able to raise funds for his family. He realizes that a man that cannot provide for his family, both SPIRITUALLY, AND PHYSICALLY, IS WORST THAN A PERSON WITHOUT FAITH.

 2. LEADERSHIP QUALITY: He has leadership quality, because he does not depend solely on others to make DECISIONS, PLANS, OR PILOT THE AFFAIRS OF HIS FAMILY. He knows when to seek advices and not, and when to act on the advices and not.

 3. OPTIMISTIC: He is always optimistic regardless of how bad the situation they are going through is, because he has in mind the words of the HOLY BIBLE that says, A MAN THAT SHOWS HIMSELF DISCOURAGED IN TIMES OF PROBLEMS, HIS POWER WILL BE SCANTY. If him as the head of the family is discouraged and starts CRYING LIKE A BABY, WHAT WILL HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN DO? WHO WILL COMFORT WHO?

4. MODERATE IN HABIT: A Capable man is moderate in habit. He knows that VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE. He endeavors to engage in WHOLE SOME ACTIVITIES MODERATELY REALISING THAT, TOO MUCH OF EVERYTHING IS BAD, AND THAT THERE IS A TIME FOR EVERY AFFAIR UNDER THE HEAVENS.

 5. SOUNDNESS OF MIND: A capable husband has sound mind that makes him use SOUND JUDGE TO MAKE DECISIONS. He also endeavors to look at ALL THE AVAILABLE FACTS, PRO'S AND CON'S, BEFORE HE MAKES A DECISION, SAY A WORD, OR TAKE AN ACTION. He always HEARS BOTH SIDES OF A STORY, AND NOT JUDGE ON HEARSAY. Do you always HEAR BOTH SIDES OF AN ISSUE, BEFORE YOU SAY THAT WORD, CARRY OUT THAT ACTION, OR MAKE THAT DECISION?

If you do, great for you already have a quality of a capable husband, but if you don’t, put in efforts to acquire them because you are working toward the success of your present or future family.          
(LIVING EVIDENCE FOUNDATION)

 COOPERATION.

What is cooperation? One school of thought define it as the act or science of working peacefully and deliberately with one another toward achieving a set goal or for the betterment of everyone, end of quote. Looking around us common sense will tell us that JEHOVAH DID NOT CREATE US TO BE INDEPENDENT OF ONE ANOTHER.  But sad to say, some people tend to think that way. Let us now XRAY this point and see EVIDENCES from

- NATURE

-CHEMISTRY

- BIOLOGY.

 1. NATURE: In nature we can see this in many sector but we will just consider one. THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN HUMANS AND PLANTS. JEHOVAH made it that humans breath in oxygen O2 and breath out carbon dioxide CO2 and plants on it parts cooperate with humans by taking in the CO2 use it to manufacture food for us and give out O2 for human to breath in thus cleaning our environment. What will happen to the man that refuses to COOPERATE with the plants around us by WITH HOLDING CO2 from the plants by not wanting to breathe it out? YOU KNOW THE STORY.

 2. CHEMISTRY: JEHOVAH also made many complex chemical processes in nature and this has been imitated in the field of chemistry. Let us restrict ourselves to one. In chemistry there is what is called CHAIN REACTION. One school of thought has it that chain reaction is a kind of complex reaction that is made up of many different reactions that uses different raw materials and produces different end products and the end product of each stage serves as the raw material for the very next stage of the reaction until the overall end product is produced then the reaction stops. Examples can be seen in Nuclear and atomic chemistry. What will happen if one of the reaction or stage in the chain reaction refuse to COOPERATE with the next stage of the reaction by not giving out it end product as the raw material for the next? YOU KNOW THE STORY.

 Lastly in BIOLOGY: JEHOVAH also made numerous EVIDENCES of these in nature and this has prompted RESEARCH into them. Among some of the well established COOPERATION IN NATURE are COMMENSALISM AND   MUTUALISM. We will consider MUTUALISM. One school of taught define mutualism as a biological association between two organisms in which both of the organisms benefit mutually from the association. An example can be seen between the association of Algae and Fungae to form Leech This association is now so strong that either of the two organisms cannot without the other effectively survive in the environment.  What will happen to the algae if it refuses to COOPERATE with the fungae? YOU KNOW THE STORY.

 MORAL LESSON. We should all learn to COOPERATE WITH ONE ANOTHER TOWARD ACHIEVING A SET POSITIVE GOAL NO MATTER OUR ECONOMIC, SOCIAL, RACIAL, POLITICAL,AND RELIGIOUS AFFILIATIONS, AS WE WHERE MADE BY JEHOVAH TO DO THAT, AND ANYTHING SHORT OF THIS WILL BE HARMFUL TO US AND OTHERS. NO MAN IS AN ICELAND.

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